Not that I’m uncultured but I’ve never really seen the appeal of traipsing round endless museums when I’m on a city break just for the sake of it. Amsterdam is full of famous (and not so famous) museums. And while some of them are genuinely fascinating – the Van Gogh Museum (which I prefer to the Rijksmuseum), the Anne Frank House, the Jewish Museum Amsterdam (I’m Jewish so interested in learning about my heritage) –I’ve never felt any obligation to visit all of Amsterdam’s many museums.
The Tropenmuseum Amsterdam (Museum of Tropics) is one such museum. Located close to Oosterpark, the Tropenmuseum Amsterdam is one of Europe’s leading ethnographic museums (ethnography is the study of social interaction, behaviours and perception that happens within groups). I’d heard from a couple of friends the Tropenmuseum Amsterdam was worth a visit. But it wasn’t until I read about the latest exhibition Black and White at the Tropenmuseum Amsterdam (plus I was in possession of a Museum Card which gives you free entry into most of Amsterdam’s major museums) that I thought I’d check it out.
I was under the impression that the Tropenmuseum Amsterdam was all about Dutch culture and heritage, and the influences of other cultures on the Dutch. While the exhibits on the top floors were interesting, I was a little confused. Firstly by the layout, I couldn’t tell where each exhibit started and finished. I also couldn’t quite work out what relevance some of the exhibits had to the Dutch, for example the culture of death in Mexico or the faith of gods in India? Perhaps if you pay for the audio guide it all becomes clear. But I still managed to pick up some real nuggets of info. A great example was that in Ghana people were buried in coffins that depict their profession. So a fisherman, for example ,would be buried in a fish-shaped coffin.
For me it was the first floor, and the temporary exhibition at the Tropenmuseum Amsterdam on Black and White, that was most intriguing. Black and White delves into the subject of race in Holland, looking at the Dutch attitude to colour. The subject matter tackles the slavery of people from the Surinamese and Indonesian Dutch colonies and the abolition of slavery in Holland (which came about as a result of British duress).
The exhibition at the Tropenmuseum Amsterdam examines what it means to be black in Holland today, looking at how people of different colours live together in society through video, audio and first person accounts. It even raises the controversial topic of whether the popular Dutch Christmas tradition of (Zwarte Piet) Black Pete is racist (75% of people questioned think it is) which begs the question of why it’s still allowed. Black and White at the Tropenmuseum Amsterdam is a thought provoking exhibition and this hidden gem is well worth checking out. Bear in mind though that it’s a temporary display and is only running at the Tropenmuseum Amsterdam until 1 July 2014.
Beer and Amsterdam go hand in hand so when I heard about the opening of Brewery Troost Amsterdam I was keen to check out this hidden gem. For research purposes of course. The Brouwerij Troost Amsterdam is in the trendy neighbourhood of De Pijp. Housed in a former convent this cafe and brewery is just down the road from the Albert Cuyp market and Ferdinand Bolstraat, the main shopping street that runs through De Pijp.
As I’ve practically given up on finding a decent brunch in Amsterdam aside from Little Collins (both Staring at Jacob and Bakers and Roasters proved disappinting despite garnering rave reviews). In the absence of this I suggested we go for an early lunch at the Brewery Troost Amsterdam as I’d heard their vegetarian options were pretty good. I have to admit I was a little disappointed to find that the interior of the Brouwerij Troost Amsterdam was all new and modern. I’d been expecting it to be old and full of character, with to see the inside of an old covent. Instead it was brand-spanking new, with more of a canteen feel with wooden tables and chairs. Above the bar you can see huge metal casks of Troost’s beer and you can also see the brewery at the back which looks a bit like a science lab.
As you’d expect from a brewery, Brouwerij Troost Amsterdam brews some of its own beers on site and it has a tasting room too. We decided to try the Troost blond beer, they also brew a white beer and an IPA which is more of a bitter. Food wise as you might expect with beer on tap, the mainstay of the menu is burgers as you can see from the menu here, as well as a selection of sandwiches and typical dutch pub snacks including bitterballen.
I went for the vegetarian burger, made from lentils, quinoa and mushrooms, with truffle mayonnaise, gherkins and lettuce. This came with a generous portion of fries. Sharps had a meat burger (of course) choosing the Troostburger – a burger with pancetta, blue cheese, olives, red onion and aioli and also with fries on the side.
Both burgers were served in a ciabatta bun which made them feel a bit more grown up. And both burgers were delicious. Mine was nutty and flavoursome, the best veggie burger I’ve had in ages. Sharps was equally as impressed with his, I could see the meat juices running out of it when he cut into it.
We were in Troost on a Sunday lunchtime and it was relatively quiet, though it did start to fill up a bit as we went to leave. The staff were friendly and helpful and the service was great, which is always a bonus in Amsterdam. One thing it’s worth mentioning is that you can’t pay by cash in Brouwerij Troost Amsterdam, they only accept cards. Troost translates as consolation but you certainly won’t be drowning your sorrows in the Brewery Troost Amsterdam.
It goes without saying I was on a quest to find the best sunset in Kauai while on holiday there. I’d been told that the The Beach House in Kauai is famous for being one of the best spots to watch the sun go down on the Hawaiian island. In fact, pretty much wherever we went people told us a visit to The Beach House restaurant was a must if we wanted to see the best sunset in Kauai.
Luckily for us, the Beach House is located in Poipu on Kauai’s south shore. It was just a short $10 taxi ride from the gorgeous Grand Hyatt Kauai Resort & Spa where we were staying (you can read my review here).
I could see why The Beach House has also been named as the most romantic restaurant in Kauai, and one of the most romantic restaurants in Hawaii. Its setting is idyllic. The Beach House restaurant is situated right next to the beach. Perfect if you want to spend an afternoon sunbathing as you can then pop over for cocktails at its bar, which overlooks the ocean, and get a prime seat to watch the best sunset in Kauai.
Our dinner was booked for 5.30pm (people dine early in Hawaii so you can eat and watch the sunset) and as we arrived a little early were sat in the bar area and ordered a cocktail. It was pretty packed and by 6pm there was a queue to get in. Probably because word’s out that this Hawaiian hidden gem has views of the best sunset in Kauai. We were shown to our outdoor table where we had great views of the sky turning an orange hue, definitely the best sunset in Kauai that we’d seen.
Then we turned our attention to the menu which was filled with an array of fresh fish. My starter of slightly seared tuna poke was served in a crispy wanton basket and drizzled in a wasabi sauce. Sharps’ Beach House ceviche – scallops, tiger prawns, fresh island fish, avocado, tomato, cucumber, and cilantro, served with sweet potato crips on the side – was light and limey.
Both of us had fish for our main. My opa (moonfish) came in a wasabi butter crust that tasted a bit like cheese. Sharps said his crab crusted island catch of monchong (sea pomfret) was softer than my fish and the mandarin Thai orange glaze with kabayaki reminded him of sweet and sour sauce. But the star dish for Sharps was the lobster mac and cheese. He said the pasta was cheesy and al dente and the addition of the sweet lobster gave more depth to the dish.
Why I ordered dessert is beyond me (actually that’s not true – zero willpower and greed are just two suggestions). But I found it impossible to resist the sound of the Hawaiian carrot cake with macadamia nuts, pineapple and cheese frosting. Though I’m not usually a pudding person this was my favourite of all the courses. It was gigantic and after a mouthful of the soft, moist cake I was ready to burst. Thankfully our waiter had told us that they could always box it up for us to take home with us which is exactly what we did. We ate it for breakfast next day. Sharps on the other hand had no problem demolishing his rich, gooey chocolate fondant with vanilla ice cream. If you’re after good food (the Beach House also won the accolade of Kauai best restaurant) and views of the best sunset in Kauai you’ll feel right at home at the Beach House.
Last month my mum passed away at St Ann’s Hospice in Little Hulton, North Manchester. It might seem like a bit of an odd thing for me to feature St Ann’s Hospice Little Hulton on My Hidden Gems. But the purpose of my blog is to uncover all sorts of hidden gems and St Ann’s Hospice Little Hulton is exactly that. For me and my family it was a godsend. I don’t know how my brother and I could have coped without it. This year I won’t be able to give my mum a present for Mother’s Day. So, in memory of my mum, I wanted to share my experiences of St Ann’s Hospice Little Hulton in the hope it will help others and give them strength too.
Before a couple of months ago I didn’t even know of the existence of St Ann’s Hospice Little Hulton. In fact, I didn’t even really know what a hospice is, or does. Then, out of the blue, my mum was diagnosed with being in the final stages of gallbladder cancer. It had already spread to mum’s spine and liver and there was no cure but we were told chemo may be possible to help prolong mum’s life.
My mum was admitted to North Manchester General Hospital where she was treated appallingly. At the point where they had allowed my mum to deteriorate so badly the hospital planned to send her home with no care plan in place. I was distraught. I knew I wasn’t in a position to be able to look after my mum and give her the care she needed to hopefully get her well enough to be able to have chemo.
I decided to do some research into alternative care options for people with cancer. Surely there were special homes designed to deal with people in similar situations given the number of people affected by cancer? I was gobsmacked to learn there aren’t. My only real choice would be to admit my mum into a nursing home, where the majority of patients were much older (my mum was 65), and suffering with types of dementia. I wasn’t about to let this happen.
There was the option of home carers, Macmillan nurses coming to my mum’s house. Macmillan Cancer Support do an incredible job. But their visits are during the daytime, which means at night I would have to look after my mum alone. And because my mum was so weak I couldn’t see how this was a workable solution to help get her strength back.
Then I came across hospices. My mum’s best friend told me she knew someone who had been in St Ann’s Hospice Little Hulton, Manchester, and raved about how amazing it was. I’d (incorrectly) assumed that a hospice is somewhere people go to for end of life care. This, I discovered, isn’t the case. A hospice is also a place people with life-limiting illnesses can go to for palliative care. Hospices offer rehabilitation and respite care to try and make people’s lives as comfortable as possible, helping them to manage their condition. It was exactly the type of place we needed for my mum.
There was just one snag. To get into a hospice there is a waiting list list (and you need to be referred by a hospital). I was fortunate we managed to secure my mum a place in St Ann’s Hospice in Little Hulton in North Manchester, not far from Bolton. What’s incredible about St Ann’s Hospice Little Hulton is that it’s not means tested, and it’s free. St Ann’s Hospice works on the premise that everyone is equal and should be treated the same no matter how much, or how little, money you have. This applies to all of the St Ann’s Hospice sites – there are three in total, St Ann’s Hospice Little Hulton, St Ann’s Hospice Heald Green and St Ann’s Hospice Neil Cliffe Centre, Wythenshaw – and other hospices too.
We honestly didn’t know what to expect from St Ann’s Hospice Little Hulton. My mum was in one of the ward rooms in the inpatients unit, each had three beds. Everyone was upbeat, nothing too much trouble. It was a far cry from the sterile atmosphere of the hospital. There were also some private rooms as well as a large, airy lounge with a TV, sofas and dining table, various little sitting rooms and a large reception area with a coffee shop (run by volunteers) and a chapel. On the other side of the building was the area for day patients where people could take part in various activities including arts and crafts.
Apart from the medical staff providing specialised round-the-clock treatment – doctors, nurses, physios, social workers – St Ann’s Hospice is manned by an amazingly selfless team of volunteers. They do everything from take round the drinks trolley (patients are even offered alcoholic drinks) to providing aromatherapy and reflexology treatments. There’s also a hairdresser who comes round to do patient’s hair and meals are freshly prepared by the cook who visits patients to ask them what they fancy to eat that day.
It’s not just the patients that St Ann’s Hospice looks after, the welfare of family and carers is also paramount. The staff are on hand to offer both emotional and practical advice and guidance on how to cope, or just give an ear to listen to allowing you the chance to talk about your worries and concerns.
Sadly we thought mum’s stay would be a stepping stone in her treatment. This wasn’t to be the case. But my brother and I are forever grateful that my mum died comfortably, she wasn’t in pain, and had peace of mind. This wouldn’t have been possible without the kindness and compassion of the staff at St Ann’s Hospice Little Hulton. When the time came, one of the nurses even stayed with my mum at the moment she passed away, so she wasn’t alone. They allowed my mum to keep her dignity and for this my family and I can never repay them.
I was shocked to learn that to stay open St Ann’s Hospice needs £16,000 a day. The government only funds 30% of the cost for this unbelievable facility. I was also surprised to see that although there is a waiting list the hospice had empty beds, because it can’t afford to fill them. St Ann’s Hospice may be Greater Manchester’s largest hospice but it still relies on much-needed donations for it to be able to keep running. Whether you pop into one of the St Ann’s Hospice charity shops, take part in one of St Ann’s Hospice’s events, make a donation to St Ann’s Hospice, buy a St Ann’s Hospice lottery ticket (you could win the weekly prize of £2,000) or volunteer your time. You never know if unfortunately one day you might be in need of this hidden gem. I hope you never will. But if even one person is helped by knowing about St Ann’s Hospice Little Hulton, and other hospices like it, I’m sure it would make my mum very happy. And that’s the most any daughter could wish for on Mother’s Day.